Colic: How to Manage It
Kathleen Stern Kathleen Stern

Colic: How to Manage It

“Colic” — a dreaded 5-letter word to expecting and new parents. But what is it exactly? Colic is defined by intense crying or fussiness in a healthy baby that happens with frequency and regularity, typically in evening. It is not a diagnosis, but usually, a symptom of someth…

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Tips for Traveling with Baby
Kathleen Stern Kathleen Stern

Tips for Traveling with Baby

Traveling with a baby can be a daunting task, but it doesn't have to be. With a little planning and preparation, you can make your trip as smooth and enjoyable as possible. Here are a few tips to help you get started:

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How can I reduce the effects of trauma from my baby’s birth?
Kathleen Stern Kathleen Stern

How can I reduce the effects of trauma from my baby’s birth?

A situation that feels sudden, overwhelming, or dangerous can lead to a trauma response. Fight, fight or freeze. As doulas, we try our best to reduce and prevent trauma. It’s important to know one of the simplest ways to reduce the effects of birth trauma and vicarious trauma. IT’S CALLED BILATERAL STIMULATION. It regulates the nervous system. It encourages better communication between the two sides of the brain. This helps emotional processing and regulation. What does bilateral stimulation look like?

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Is it normal to feel this way? The truth on perinatal mood and anxiety disorders
Kathleen Stern Kathleen Stern

Is it normal to feel this way? The truth on perinatal mood and anxiety disorders

7 out of 10 people experience perinatal anxiety. 4 out of 10 people experience perinatal depression. 1 in 10 partners experience PMADs (perinatal mood and anxiety disorders). 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐛𝐚𝐝 𝐧𝐞𝐰𝐬: Perinatal mood and anxiety disorders do not go away on their own. 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐠𝐨𝐨𝐝 𝐧𝐞𝐰𝐬: They are treatable! You have to first know what they look like.

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What is a weighted feed? Why do it?
Kathleen Stern Kathleen Stern

What is a weighted feed? Why do it?

For breastfeeding or chestfeeding parents: Since you don’t have ounce markers on your breasts, it can be hard to tell how much milk your baby is getting.

If you’d like more “data”, you can try a #weightedfeed with a lactation-trained doula! The weighted feed entails 3 steps…

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Why won’t my baby fall asleep if they’re really tired?
Kathleen Stern Kathleen Stern

Why won’t my baby fall asleep if they’re really tired?

Think back to a time you were exhausted…overtired…and fell into bed…but felt like your mind couldn’t turn off. You had a second wind …adrenaline and cortisol is spiking, making it tricky of fall asleep. Same thing happens to babies when they get overtired! Signs of OVERTIRED babies include:

★ Crying uncontrollably

★ Flailing arms and legs

★ Fussing

★ Making more jerky body movements

★ Being more easily startled

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Will I ever sleep again?
Kathleen Stern Kathleen Stern

Will I ever sleep again?

Yes you will sleep…but first let’s level set. Let’s talk about the realities of newborn sleep (what’s normal). Then a few tips for better parent sleep.

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Which medications are safe to take while pregnant? What is not safe to take while pregnant?
Kathleen Stern Kathleen Stern

Which medications are safe to take while pregnant? What is not safe to take while pregnant?

During pregnancy, it is common to experience heartburn, constipation, colds and other types of infections (yeast, urinary tract, gingivitis) as well as day to day symptoms like hay fever or seasonal allergies. Talk to your doctor about the benefits and risks of these medication. Below is a list of medications that are approved for use in pregnancy. We also included a list of what is not “safe” in pregnancy.

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Pooping While Pregnant: What is and isn’t normal
Kathleen Stern Kathleen Stern

Pooping While Pregnant: What is and isn’t normal

Many pregnant people experience constipation and diarrhea while pregnant. There are some normal reasons for this, but definitely other reasons that are outside the range of normal. Learn more about what normal and what is not normal when it comes to your digestion during pregnancy. If you have concerns, please let your medical provider know— whether it’s your OB, midwife, PCP, or nutritionist.

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“Type A” Parents: How to Feel Successful with an Infant
Kathleen Stern Kathleen Stern

“Type A” Parents: How to Feel Successful with an Infant

In your pre-baby life, you loved to feel productive... to feel in control. You lived for a to-do list…and crossing items off the list.

You are not alone. Many parents struggle with their Type A or perfectionists qualities they become new parents. What does “success” and “productivity” even mean with an infant? Check out this updated “to list” for Type A parents to feel accomplished.

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Baby’s Cardinal Movements in Birth
Kathleen Stern Kathleen Stern

Baby’s Cardinal Movements in Birth

Ever wonder what’s going on with your baby/babies during labor? How are they going to make it through the pelvis? Babies are smart and will try to accommodate the space that they are given. In labor, your baby must make four “cardinal movements” in order to be born.

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What if my water breaks while I’m at work?
Kathleen Stern Kathleen Stern

What if my water breaks while I’m at work?

What is my water breaks while I’m at work? How will I know my water broke? These are all common concerns for pregnant persons, especially those with professions where you need to be on your feet and "on" in front of other people. Take it from me, a former middle school teacher during doula. A few things to know about water breaking…

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